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visitors.

I had a friend over to my apartment the other day. It was his first visit.

I saw this friend of mine sizing up the place: checking out the book shelf, the photos, the "neat pile" of craft stuffs. Later, after he'd left, I wondered what he'd seen, what he' remember now (if anything). Did notice the picture of my great grandmother or the one of my brother in Mexico? Did he open the medicine cabinet when he was in the bathroom? Did he wonder why I had "Hello Kitty Candy Store" on my kitchen table?

I'm nosy. I always wander around houses and apartments looking at knick-knacks, opening ornamental boxes, inquiring as to the location rendered in a particular photo. When I walk on NYC streets, I strive to see into the windows of other people's houses. I open medicine cabinets.

So, I wonder what other people see when they see my stuff; what they think about it. And if what I hope they see has any similarities with what they actually do.

Posted on Tuesday, December 5, 2006 at 01:56PM by Registered Commenterthe great leslie | Comments4 Comments

Reader Comments (4)

i will make a note to tidy my medicine cabinet next time you come to visit :)
December 5, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterAnna
I ALWAYS think about this when people come over. As you know, I rarely have people to my place. I think because I am so private and like my (limited) space. And, because I, too, size people up when I go to their homes. Wonder what the story is behind certain things. Maybe think I can get a sense of who they are from their book and cd collections or if they have a stuffed animal on the bed.
December 6, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterAlexis
So, Leslie, if you remember, what did my space tell you about me (besides the fact that I turned into a raging bitch due to limited space)?
December 6, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterAlexis
oh, Alexis...first impressions from over a year ago. what do i remember? all your jewlery is on the wall in the bathroom. you have lots of hair pastes. pictures of kermit on the fridge. books and movies, of course. and cats in the sun.

and, yes, tidy the medicine cabinet.
December 7, 2006 | Registered Commenterthe great leslie

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